me personally and my boyfriend is in relationship from previous 8 year..initially it had been operating great..then he began possessing me personally not to ever do that n that..on thn he usually do back nd again starts pampering me ..bt it remains for sometime..again he says i already told u i dont want to b wid u..if he suddenly says this thing after pampering showing love to me again it is hard for me to move on suddenly..i m in big dilemma..what to do??