As Helena Andrews remarked couple of years ago at xoJane, itвЂ™s about signaling whether youвЂ™re interested. A guy whom will not spend, and sometimes even provide, as you of her times did, is creating a declaration together with his wallet. Conversely, on her, if she will pay, thatвЂ™s her means of saying sheвЂ™s perhaps not interested. вЂњUsually because I want to leave as soon as possible,вЂќ wrote Andrews if I pay for dinner, especially if it’s the very first dinner out with a potentially romantic partner, it’s. вЂњNot that we can’t keep then i’m the one flagging down the waiter and twisting around in my seat for my coat if someone else pays, but if I’m paying.